Saturday, February 26, 2011

Fostering sibling relationships

One of the things that I’m hoping is that my kids will have good relationships with each other.  However, hope isn’t going to take care of that.  It’s a great place to start, of course, but it’s not enough, because kids are often selfish and sometimes mean (on purpose or not), and their siblings often take the brunt of some not very pleasant behavior.  At least, this happens in our family.  Maybe other people’s kids aren’t like that…

It must be working to some extent, because when Sim woke up from his nap today, he began calling, “Hannah!  Hannah!”  This was new.  He almost always wants me after his nap.  Hannah wasn’t readily available, so I went up. 

“I wanted Hannah,” he explained, in a somewhat annoyed tone.

“Hannah’s downstairs.  Would you like to go find her?”

“YES!”

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Friday, February 25, 2011

The discoveries of our resident escapee

Hildy, Michael’s rabbit, has discovered that SOMETIMES the cage door is not always fully secured on the  bunny cage.  She’s also discovered that, in those instances, she can grab it with her teeth and work it back and forth until it opens and she can come out.  She’s also discovered that the kids sometimes drop oatmeal at breakfast and that, if she makes a stop under the table, she might have a lovely oatmeal snack.  Then, too, the rug in the dining room has great traction and makes for a superb track to race around multiple times at top speed.  AND she’s discovered that we can have a tough time getting her back to her cage once she’s in the front rooms of the house, what with her predator-avoidance instincts and all.

This means that we sometimes come back from being out or come downstairs from putting the kids to bed and find a bunny on the loose.  (Gypsy, being a well-behaved bunny (like Flopsy, Mopsy, and Cottontail), would never deign to leave the cage unless invited, and sometimes not even then.)  Generally, I just leave her until she gets tired, because once that happens, she’ll go back without too much of a fuss. 

When we first got the bunnies, I wasn’t really into the idea of “house rabbits.”  Poop, I thought, and pee.  Nope.  No WAY.  However, and I’m hoping that putting this in writing is not going to change everything, we have yet to have a bunny accident outside of the cage since they have become fully box trained.  No joke. 

So I don’t worry about the escapism too much.  I prefer it to happen while we’re in the house so that we can secure the parts of the house that aren’t so safe for bunnies, but really, it’s pretty cute to look up and see a happy bunny hopping about. 

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Impatience

Naomi asked the other day, “Is the baby going to come out soon?”

Um…no…6 more months. 

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

A major treat for all the kids

The girls love going to the dentist.  They love it, truly.  I told them on Sunday that we’d be going to the dentist on Tuesday, and they began celebrating.  Yesterday when I said it was time to get ready for bed, Hannah said, “Oh good!  This day passed really quickly and tomorrow is DENTIST DAY!!!” 

Today was Simeon’s first time actually getting his mouth looked at, and the girls were so enthusiastic for him that he was completely hyped up about it all morning.  The dental hygienist who worked with him loved it, because he hopped up in the chair, opened his mouth, uttered not one complaint, and was a model patient.  She used a regular ol’ toothbrush on him today, since it was his first time, but I don’t think he would have minded the other type, either.  He was completely agreeable for the dentist to look at his mouth, and he looked hilarious and quite cute in the dental chair with sunglasses on.  I was sorry I forgot the camera…

No cavities for anyone!  Plus, they all got balloons, new toothbrushes, floss, flossers, stickers, and magnetic calendars with their dentist’s name on them.  Sim also got a tiny little plastic ninja, Naomi got a tiny little plastic alien with a parachute, and Hannah got a bouncy ball. 

AND for a little icing on the cake, because of the fluoride treatment they got, they don’t get brushed or flossed at bedtime tonight.  This is a favorite perk with Hannah, especially. 

The dentist has retained her reputation as one of the best-loved outings of the Bernstein children. 

Wednesday, February 16, 2011

I forgot to mention

that I completely trashed the kitchen in making the casserole, and then had to dash out to a seminar on pediatric urology (the fun never stops around here!).  When I got home, my dear husband had cleaned up the mess I’d left behind, besides putting the kids to bed.  He’s dreamy. 

In which I wax eloquent…

…about casserole.  “What?”  You ask yourself.  “Casserole?  What is there to wax eloquent about?  We have casserole twice a week.”  Or maybe you’re of the school of thought that casserole is an abomination, and you would never wax eloquent about it unless it was the ultimate and final demise of all casserole everywhere.  In which case, you may want to stop reading now and come back when I’ve posted more pictures of the kids.

My family had casseroles regularly when I was growing up.  I liked them.  They were good, and they were comfort food.  Some of them involved broccoli, some of them involved sausage and black olives, some of them involved eggs, some of them involved tuna, some of them (made by my dad) were called “Amalgam Casserole,” because he put all the leftovers he could find into them and baked them up.  Okay, so those were not always my favorites.  [Dad, I’m sorry, but some flavors don’t blend well.  And even cheese can’t always cover that.  But I do appreciate your efforts to feed us, nonetheless.]

One thing casseroles always involved:  dairy products.  Milk, cheese, cream of mushroom or celery or whatever soup.  Mmmm. 

When I started out to make the casserole tonight, Hannah asked what I was doing.  “Making dinner.”  She wanted to know what I was making.  “Casserole.”  Then came the kicker:

“What’s casserole?”

My kids haven’t been able to eat dairy.  Hannah and Naomi both have lactose intolerance issues, although they can handle some cheeses in small quantities and also yogurt.  Simeon is just plain allergic to dairy.  Casserole has not really been in our menu rotation since…6 1/2 years ago.  Enough so that when I went somewhere with the kids a few years ago, Michael made himself a tuna casserole and ate the whole darn thing for meal after meal while I was gone (But not for breakfast.  I don’t think.).  He got the recipe online, since we don’t really have any casserole recipes. 

How, you may ask, did I manage to make a casserole?  Did my children magically start to handle dairy better?  NO!  I discovered, thanks to this recipe, that one can make a vegan bechamel!  This may mean nothing to you, but there was one line in the recipe that caught and held my attention:  “We used all the roux to create a sauce with the consistency of thick, heavy cream.”  The heavens opened, angels sang, and a whole new world of recipes (using magical vegan sauce the consistency of thick, heavy cream) opened up to me!

Vegan cream means that I will be able to make casserole!  I can make the vegan bechamel and I can add it instead of the milk and cream soups!  This changes everything!  I can make chowder that everyone in my family can eat!  (Will they?  I don’t know, but it won’t be harmful to them!)  I can make tomato cream sauce!  I can…the possibilities are mind-boggling!

Of course, you may be rolling your eyes at this point.  I know, I know, there are vegan cheezes, there are vegan cream cheezes, there are vegan cream soups, there are soy creams that are thick like heavy cream.  I know that, but have you ever tried that stuff?  It’s not very good.  And if you have tried it and thought it was fine, have you ever read the ingredients?  I’m not into gums and 40-word ingredients.  I’m also not into having lots of soy in my diet, so we use rice milk – that’s how I made the vegan bechamel. 

All I’m saying is that I made chicken and rice casserole today using the roux method, and it was good.  Everyone in my family ate it.  EVERYONE.  Even Naomi, the resident food-separatist and judger-of-food-based-solely-on-how-it-looks ate this casserole, after finally trying a bite.  She was convinced she wouldn’t like it, but she ended up eating a huge serving.

And Michael said it was a make-again dish.  Michael is a generous and loving husband, and I love him very much.  I appreciate that he always thanks me for making dinner, no matter what it is that I am serving him.  But he doesn’t tell me things are make-again dishes if he doesn’t really think they’re make-again dishes.

Casserole.  It’s the little things, isn’t it?

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Great news!

Chocolate tastes good again and doesn’t make me sick!